Why do we, women, not articulate our likes and dislikes when it comes to sex? Why are we always the provider and thus in a position of receiving? Why can’t we stand up for our body? Why are we so worried that we may not fit in - and fear of being left out in the mad race of marriage and motherhood? We aren’t quite looking for soulmates, we seek instant sexual gratification.
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Also, does a man we are in love with have the full and final right to talk dirty to us, as and when he pleases. Also, since so much is now said and written about a woman’s consensual abilities, I wonder if the right to pleasure will ever be ours to own and order, of our free will. And if that will ever pass as playful or passionate. I mean, if a girl can also call a man she’s having an affair with, a "bastard", or a "gigolo". I think of if the reverse also perhaps held true. And yet, a part of me disagreed with calling a woman you love and cherish, a "bitch" or a "whore", given a certain sense of disrespect that seemed almost synonymous with the adage. I paused before advising her, since the boundaries of what is acceptable varies depending on individual relationships, and what is perfectly normal and consensual for someone, maybe hitting below the belt and feel hugely offensive for another.
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I am stunned and scared at his propensity for violence and worry what if he hits me… I have been single for a decade and he’s a nice guy otherwise… but… every time he calls me 'whore' or 'bitch’, I feel so very cheap." There are days, you know, when I don’t want to be touched at all, or would rather talk.
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He also gets aggressive the times I say I am not in the mood. “He calls me bitch every time we make out. A couple of days ago a reader wrote into my Facebook inbox asking for my counsel in addressing a rather complex problem that had cropped up in her two-year-long relationship.